To accept or decline? That is the question.
Networking is vital for any business, but especially for writers. If you are a reclusive writer, chances are you are missing out on precious opportunities for new clients, gigs, interview subjects, industry connections, and much more.
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Say “Yes”!
- Start small. It doesn’t take much effort to get “out there” with the public. Spend an extra hour in church, mingle during the coffee/cookie hour before or after services. If you typically stay after your service, opt to go an hour early and mingle with the earlier service or vice-versa. Go early to pick up kids from school and chat with the other parents. Accept more invitations to go out or visit with friends. While I wouldn’t hand out business cards to everyone, a simple conversation about what you do for a living will leave a lasting impression on a business owner.
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Be A Host
- For those with local clients or colleagues, host an event such as a coffee meeting between companies can increase the work-load for you! While you might not have a new project available immediately, bringing clients together to network will keep you in mind when he isn’t able to take on a project. You can socialize with prospective clients and fellow writers by hosting a morning tea or lunch. Perhaps consider a stationery or office supply party plan event.
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Join A Writing Group
- The group doesn’t have to be locally based. Join a writing group for accountability or editing. Fellow writers can call on you when they aren’t able to take a gig for any reason and you’ll all benefit from the shared support and mutual feedback. This might lead to some ghost-writing positions that you can claim on your resume or the right name being dropped in the right place at the right time.
Networking online is important for many writers, but failing to network off-line can be detrimental. By not answering the knock of opportunity you are failing yourself and your business. Change just one “no” into a “yes” today and begin sowing the benefits of all your hard work.
Don’t forget the Writer Must-Have’s when you venture outside your own writing nook.
How do you make the most of opportunities to say “yes” instead of “no” when networking?
Photo Credit: 06-03-06 © Amanda Rohde



Great Post! I’m taking your advice more this year than ever before since I started freelancing…for many reasons I wasn’t comfortable with networking outside of my small comfort zone. Well, no more, I’ve learned that a ‘yes’response does keep one in the mind of potential clients…
It is so easy to say no! Especially when you are prone to being a reclusive person anyway. It really does help to say yes! Keep us updated on how your “yes” goes!
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