I’ve truly enjoyed writing the ‘Dog Train Your Writing Skills’ series. It is interesting to take such a unique experience in life and compare it to how each and every one of us can conduct our freelance writing business. I am sure there are many other ventures that can be considered in the same way. What does other aspects of your life teach you about being a freelance writer?

The final two lessons tend to play against each other but are vital to learn if you hope to succeed in the challenges of running a freelance business.

Jump through Hoops

Tricks and trials are taught in advanced dog obedience. They’re also an important set of lessons for advanced freelancers to learn and understand. Just as some dogs won’t be easy to train, some clients, won’t be easy to work with. They’ll ask you to jump through hoops. They’ll want you to produce above and beyond. They’ll expect speedy turn arounds and near impossible feats of bravery.

This is the freelancing life. Clients often don’t understand what our day to day work schedule is like. They don’t understand that they are not our primary concern. Indeed, if you’re customer service is up to par they’ll feel like they ARE always number one.

Don’t feel you always have to jump through hoops for your client. Lay out your contract and shake upon it. Deliver above and beyond only as you feel able without overworking yourself. Meeting your clients needs does not always equal meeting their demands.

The important thing to remember is to remain diplomatic. Discuss your concerns with your client. Explain any difficulties you may have meeting their requests and don’t be afraid to insist on a higher pay bracket should they expect more than your original agreement outlined.

Every dog, and every freelancer, has the power to choose when to obey.

Kisses and Cuddles

At the end of your training session it’s important to praise, kiss, cuddle and reward your dog. It’s equally important to consider your personal achievements, reward yourself, congratulate yourself on a job well done, involve your loved ones in the emotional fulfillment. You truly have accomplished remarkable feats.

We all have difficult days and taking the time to cherish and reward yourself will make it easier to face the ups and downs of a freelancers life. Pay yourself, consider yourself the vital element in your business.

Without the love and care you can give yourself it becomes harder to achieve. Without these kinds of incentives we begin to wonder why we follow those commands. Why sit? Why fetch?

While you absorb your rewards, remind yourself why you love this career; Why it is the only job you can ever imagine yourself doing for the rest of your life. Smile, you’re living your dream!